Treat Yourself to an Evening In Party

Treat Yourself to an "Evening In" Party

It was the end of a busy day at the post office, and the postal clerk had to reenter my order in the computer. She said she was really stressed out, and dreaded the upcoming holiday rush. I asked her how she would de-stress herself when she got home. Her reply was immediate: “I am going to get into my jammies, pet my cat, have a cup of tea, and watch a great old movie on TV.” This lady had it right. Instead of chasing around, for something good “out there” she was going home and having an “Evening In” party for herself. This time of year we especially need to pause and take a moment to take care of ourselves and reconnect with those close to us.

This time of year we even more overscheduled than usual. Out calendars are filled with parties, pageants, end-of-season championships, fund raisers and more. We need to take time out to reconnect with our families and ourselves. Hence, the “Evening In” party.

It can be spontaneous or carved out of your calendar. But what ever you do, keep it simple, simple, simple.

SET THE SCENE:

Turn off the computer, Turn off the phone (that is the answering machine is for.)
Dim the lights – this is guaranteed to make your home feel more cozy and warm.
Bring out some simple, warming food. What you already have on hand

Tea

Hot cocoa

Hot cider

Popcorn

Set up a favorite video
Get out an enjoyable book
Find a well-loved old children’s book
Set out a board game or a deck of cards
Play some relaxing music

Wrap yourself or your family in a comforter or throw

If you have a cat or dog who would like to join, invite them too.

If you live by yourself, you can do what the lady at the post office did. She made time for herself and pampered herself with simple, cozy things.

The “Evening In” party is not limited to the holiday season Have one anytime life is getting too hectic and you need to reconnect.

Jammies are optional.